Ok folks, this was another question posed to me by someone on the scene who is a good friend of mine. At first I thought the answer was easy but I am not so sure it is. So, here is the question "In your private life, when you are not being Leia, do you prefer domestic discipline, where the punishment is for actual misdeeds or a role play where the punishment received may or may not necessarily be for an actual "crime" committed?"
I of course launched into an answer, at first believing domestic discipline being my one and only choice, where the punishments are real and the rules are set. This is of course a way of life I live and enjoy immensely. There is nothing quite like the nervous feeling of going to see your disciplinarian for a punishment due that you have earned for misbehaviour. The reprimand received makes me feel uncomfortable to say the least, particularly if my behaviour has been seen to let that person down. And, of course the punishment means something to both parties in a uniquely intimate fashion. What could be better?
However before long I was realising all the other fantasies I have cannot easily be fulfilled in a domestic setting such as the BDSM play I enjoy, not to mention some of the psychological paly of interrogation scenarios and other such scenes that cannot be fulfilled in a domestic setting. So, like many women I was talking myself into wanting a joyous mixture of the two and "wanting my cake and eating it!". Fundamentally I think it depends on how I feel on any given day or period in my life, where I may change my mind from day to day. The is a woman's perogative no?
Any thoughts from both any ladies and gents that read this will be gratefully received and read!