Monday, 30 August 2010

Aspects of scenes that have become triggers once more

Hello folks.  As I am sure you may be aware if you are a member of the scene who is as greedy as me and indulges in much play, some aspects of a scene can become a bit every day.   Luckily, this effect has not been permanent.   The aspects in scene life I am talking of are as follows:

1.  Corner Time:  Not so long ago it seemed that everyone wanted me in the corner.  because of this it became a "lesser" punishment in my eyes, particularly psychologically.  This is because I had been sent there too much!  Well, lately that has changed and for the first time in months I was sent to the corner the other day with my skirt tucked in and my knickers down.  For the first time in ages I was embarrassed at being in such a position in front of the person who had punished me while he enjoyed a glass of wine.  He was amused by how my cheeks had gone red (in my face that is!) with the humiliation of the act.  I am pleased this feeling has returned for me!

2.  Key phrases:  When I first came on the scene, key phrases would make my stomach turn over.  One of these in particular was "You're going to get such a hard spanking you won't sit down for a week young lady".  Sadly, this phrase was over-used in scenes with me and again its charm was lost.  However, someone said it to me recently.  A friend, not someone I "fancy", but someone I enjoy CP play with in private.  Anyway, when he said it to me, not only did I truly believe it (he spanks VERY hard), but I once more experienced that joyous stomach-flipping moment I used to love experiencing so much in the past. 

3.  School uniform:  I love uniforms.  This includes school uniforms.  However, the CP scene can use this scene a bit too much, maybe to the point where school scenes end up repeating themselves, however inventive a Dominant is.  Consequently I began to find school scenes less interesting than others.  This all changed recently when I was playing a scene with someone.  Oddly enough, the scene had not begun with me in school uniform, but I was clearly acting up enough to be issued with an unusual threat.  If my behaviour was to continue down the route I had chosen (very immature!) then I was to be put in school uniform and punished severely.  This of course happened and I found it really exciting.  And it was different.  It was a scene that also re-ignited my love of school scenes.  So well done that man.  You know who you are!!!

So.  Does anyone else have this happen to them.  Do aspects of a scene become over-used for you?  Have any of these become re-ignited as exciting like my experiences? 

5 comments:

Brett B said...

I've been fascinated by spanking since I was a child, so there are many aspects I've experienced, and thought and heard about countless times. In the scene there have become many cliches. Yet it seems some things never get old for me. The same hot buttons remain hot. But I think there needs to be something genuine about a scene. Just going through familiar motions, or saying the words that are expected, can be dreadfully boring. I sometimes wonder if people very active in the scene might get jaded, or reach a point where they lose interest altogether. I'm glad you were excited again by these scenes that featured such common themes. It's still exciting for me to know they happened to you and for you.

Andy said...

I think I can imagine although I'm not nearly playing as often as you do.

It can be a bit of "been there, done that" and the phrases can sound silly at times.

Yet - it's so nice when it works. The desire and the fear, the anticipation, preparation and the pain ...

MarQe's Study said...

I'm not able to play often enough for this to be a problem! But the thought of you in school uniform always gets the blood pressure heading the wrong way ;)

Kaelah said...

I play much less than you, but I think I can relate to your description. When Ludwig and I played for the first time, the most thrilling moment was when he took my panties down. Now that we know each other very well and have played much more often, this part of the spanking often doesn't play such an important role for me any more. But I'm quite sure that under the right circumstances it would be very thrilling again. For example in a very ritualistic and ceremonial scene where the preparations for the spanking are very slowly and carefully done and especially celebrated.

Leia-Ann Woods said...

Thank you guys for your thoughts. They help me arrange mine more than you think. It is so appreciated. xxxxx

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