Monday, 21 March 2011

When logic gives way to need...

Hello folks.  I do apologise for the long delay in posting but I have been VERY busy, which is one of the reasons for this post.  

I have had quite a schedule of late, balancing scene play with chemistry work with mixed success.  I recently scheduled a deeply psychological play session (private) where I would be tested in physicality as well as in mind.  I knew I had a busy schedule previous to this event, but I ignored this and went along to the event, despite by brain feeling like it had been run over by a truck several times.  Physically I was not too bad, but mentally I was shattered.  Given what I am (I will not go into the details), I really need to look after my mind more than I do.  So why don't I?  Well, logic gives in to the need to play.  Sadly, this often means that the play session I have been so looking forward to is not so good for me or the person I am playing with.  What is usually hot can become less so, and certain subjects that are sore (and can possibly be used in a session to 'break' me) become mountains rather than mole hills.   The session was not all bad, please do not misunderstand me (in fact we traversed a major rubicon), but I could have been so much better and so given my play partner so much more. 

After the session, I felt low, possibly because I was so emotionally tired, but also because I had not performed as well as I felt I should have.  This is counter-productive for all involved I believe.  This may be why I am no longer a slave!  Has anyone else suffered from 'logic giving way to need' syndrome?  I do hope I am not the only one but please leave comments if you have anything to say on this matter.  Thank you folks!   
     

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