Spanking. Whether our primary turn on is psychological or physical we all enjoy it, right? I don't know about you folks, but I have had a passion for scene and all it offers for many years now, and one aspect which continues to give me much joy is diversity. Now, diversity may come in many different packages, for instance, are you a role-player? Or do you prefer to enjoy the sensation without interruption? But today I want to talk about physical diversity. Myself and friends of mine have been subjected to unwarranted comments on our shape and most recently our size. People come in different packages and I for one think that is great. I have played with many women and some men (!), all of whom have looked different. Did it matter to me? No. Why? Because people are physically diverse and that is one of the joys of our community.
For some it seems there are aesthetics to spanking and the scene. Some spankees have been described as too tall to spank. Why? Because conditioning tells us that a dominant person is taller than the submissive? I can tell you that
Lucy McLean as Matron is rather scary and has me submitting in seconds, despite the fact she is several inches shorter than me. She and others, such as
Amy Hunter, do not need height to exert authority. They do it naturally. And bloody well!
Others have been described as too thin with no ass, and I have had the fact that at times my ribs stick out noted. Does anyone really think we want or need to hear that? I can assure you that neither me or my friend are on any sort of diet!
Finally, some have been described as curvier, among other insults, and I myself have been asked if I have put on weight and described WHILE OVER SOMEONE'S KNEE as wobbly! Clearly ideal body shape is subjective from person to person.
Now, everyone has a different idea of what their ideal person to play with is, I have my own. But I LOVE playing with different people, experiencing something new both physically, emotionally and psychologically. What a person looks like really is not top of my list when I choose a play partner, in fact it is pretty low down the list. Even when it comes to spanking films and photo sets, we must remember that what we are seeing may not be ideal for us, but someone else may be looking at the same time and find it perfect. Again, it is all subjective. So before we rush in with our thoughts, maybe we should think about what we say. The models on the scene are people so thoughts and comments may be hurtful if not well thought out.
Rant over. Pictures and something light-hearted soon I promise!
